Same Team player hate

I try to stay away from a microphone when playing online. Not because I don't want to be social with my fellow gamers, but because I do alot of trash and silly talk while playing which may be hilarious to me and my friends but may irritate others. I wish other people would take this as advice. As in playing a game online I came to the realization that when people trash talk between teams it's ok, and can just give a game and umph. What I found I really despise though is when you join into a game in progress that I happen to be playing with limited abilities or as a beginner and you trash talk me because I was doing lousy and now you have a lost because you joined in to my team as I am losing and the round is ending. Two words for you people that do this shit FUCK YOU!!! you didn't play the whole round with me you didn't get any kills you joined in last second and you decide to bitch me out on an unbalanced circumstance? WTF? I don't mind if we lost and I did something that threw the game fine then you can call me on it. If I'm busting my ass in a 8v3 team match and I'm on the team of 3 give me some credit, yeah I lost but you didn't do any better.

      Also what bothers me is stat-crazy maniacs bitching me out because I got a loss.....My fucking god are people so lost that they have to waste time focusing on my stats instead of your own. You don't like the way I play leave. I didn't ask you to be on my team I'm not requiring you to work with me if you wanna play, play and enjoy that. I've gone to muting and reporting people for bitching me out because I'm a higher level than they are and lost more times than they did but I've got the experience in working to get this far. I apologize as this is going into a rant but this just ruins a fun game. They make the reporting feature for this alone. I'm not talking shit on you why bother me?

     I wanted to honestly hook up my mic and play and endless loop of Europes - The Final Countdown for a few hours straight. Just to see if it would get a different response than the nonsense I'm hearing. Look I know I don't like it, I don't have to play, but if I'm playing already and you jump into my game and bitch because I don't play the game the way you want I was here first FUCK OFF!!!!.

Now for any of you reading that this has nothing to do with don't think I'm trying to get everyone to play the same way or do the same thing all I'm asking for is some decency. Simply this if you're worried about stats or how other people play to the point it's obsessive leave join another room. But if you're here to help me and give me a hand at a task I may be having difficulty with I welcome you.